Written by Lindsy Castillo
As a kid, everybody had somebody to look up to as their role model, such as Superman or a Disney princess. Even though there was a time that I had wanted to be Cinderella, I later realized that somebody even better and closer to me would be my role model: my aunt, Jazmin.
When my aunt graduated high school, she had her mind set on going to a good college and pursuing her dreams of majoring in the psychology field. I recall her always calling to check up on the family. I would often talk to her, despite the fact that I was in preschool. There was a time that my family and I went to go visit her, and I thought that it was really cool that she lived with friends out of town while she went to school. I remember seeing how much fun she had and I suddenly became curious about attending college.
As things came up, she ended up leaving before she could finish school, so she decided to come back home and get a job. I was happy when she came back home. Even though once in a while I would obtain an attitude with her or get mad at simple things, such as the color she would fill in the butterfly on my coloring book, I would mostly have a good time with her.
After working with children, she decided that she would attend and finish school once again at the University of Texas at El Paso for a degree in education. Once my 5th grade year had started, she also began attending school. I was excited for her because I had always overheard her discussing with my mom and grandmother about going back and finishing college. Once she began to attend college again, she got very busy with homework and classes, which I secretly didn’t like. I knew that she was doing this because she had a passion for working with children and wanted to overcome statistics for young Latinas. I noticed that she was really committed and into what she was learning. She went above and beyond to make sure that none of the grades in her class were average or mediocre.
All the hard work has paid off. She is now a teacher at a middle school in El Paso, Texas. She is a teacher and is a first generation graduate from my family, which makes me really proud for her. It is obvious that she loves what she does. She’s always talking about how proud she is of her students, and how much progress is being made. There’s never a moment that she doesn’t think of her class. She could see the smallest toy, and say, “Oh that’s a character from one of my student’s favorite show.” I think that it’s amazing that she takes the time to get to know every one of her students, outside of schoolwork that is shown.
I think what inspires me the most about her is that she has never allowed sexism or racism to become an obstacle that she’d face during her college years. She believes that anybody that tries, believes in themselves, and has the right mindset can accomplish their dreams and goals. Whenever I think about giving up, I think of how she got things done and stayed committed to focusing on her career. Just the fact that I know that she tried her hardest and pushed herself past her limit makes me want to finish school and try my hardest at the things that I do. I want to go to college because of her, and because I think that it’s my responsibility as a teenage girl with a Mexican background to show people who doubt certain races or sexes that it can be done.
Preparing for College
Preparing for college requires more than motivation to go to school. It is important to take control of being able to have a good balance in everything. I like to go and talk to my teachers for each subject and see if I have any missing assignments or low grades that I can make up. If I have questions for my teachers, I make sure that I ask before the assignment or test is due. Taking control shows initiative on one’s own part. Not only does it help, but it feels amazing to know that everything is done and out of the way.
Another thing that I think will be crucial is not losing sight of what goals and dreams are being set. I’ve heard of a few people that just give up on college and end up regretting it later. I believe that if something is in the process of being done, it might as well be finished. A few distractions probably won’t be worth quitting something that is a passion.