I don’t often think of myself as a powerful woman. It usually takes some reminder, like Latinitas asking me to guest blog, for me to take a step back (away from doubts, insecurities, and tasks that occupy my mind) and say, “Hey, you know what? I am a chica poderosa.” So that would be my first piece of advice to all of us: realize that each and every one of us is powerful, and don’t let yourself forget it. Remind yourself constantly. Take time to really appreciate it and think about what that means. So, how do you know that you’re a chica poderosa? Make a list and find out. Just like the one I’ve made below.
“I am a chica poderosa because _______.”
For me, I am a chica poderosa because ……
- I haven’t let failures stop me from pursuing my dreams. Sometimes that means I’m persistent. Sometimes that means I change directions. But either way, I keep going.
- As my mom has told me since I was little, I am una mujer de recursos. Being resourceful does not mean you always have every answer at your fingertips; it means you’re curious and driven to find it.
- Taking small steps equal big goals. Nothing happens overnight. I believe in working hard for the things I want—day after day after day—in small, doable ways. You know how we’re always surprised how fast a month, a year, or even a decade can pass? You’ll be surprised how fast small steps add up to big achievements.
- I am not fearless. (But I don’t let my fears stop me.)
- When someone tries to make me feel bad about myself, I remember that only I can give them the power to make me feel less-than. Don’t give them the power.
Your turn. What does your list look like?
Natalia Sylvester is the author of the novel Chasing the Sun. Born in Lima, Peru, she came to the US at age 4 and grew up in South Florida, where she studied Creative Writing at the University of Miami. Follow her on Twitter/Instagram: @NataliaSylv or visit her at nataliasylvester.com.