Global Scribes: Youth Uniting Nations

Lawp7eLb_400x400Written by Jessica Aguilera 

In today’s world, the ability to share, relate, and tap into others’ lives is almost instantaneous. Connecting con su familia and your friends in Spanish speaking countries can be reached with a post on Facebook. Or a video uploaded to youtube, even a tweet can become viral, allowing millions of people worldwide the ability to see a small glimpse into your life. So why don’t we take that power and put it into education? Essays are only seen by your professors and peers, information is regurgitated from textbooks, and no personal creative thought is promoted. With standardized testing, educational institutions are pushing the same basic structure that is needed to get high scores for funding. But what happened to the creativity and imagination that we all have within? Why isn’t that being promoted?

Well an NGO called Global Scribes is taking action in uniting youth cross-culturally. Global Scribes© believes that stories have the power to connect youth worldwide, build cultural understanding and break down the barriers that divide us from others. Students, also called global scribes, do this by logging onto the Global Scribes website, uploading their creative stories related to the monthly word that sparks their imagination, and viewing and commenting on others posts. These stories or “letters to the world” can be viewed around the world regardless of geographic location! Global scribes use this interactive virtual network to connect youth through the power of shared stories which help break down barriers and promote cultural understanding.

In addition to uploading written content onto the Global Scribes website, youth, ages 8 – 22, utilize an extensive social media network that includes a radio station, Pinterest, Instagram, and Twitter. In fact, they even have a YouTube channel on which students can see students across the world reading or storytelling their stories, videos that share the life they lead, and youth created trailers for GS:IM broadcast interviews.

So who’s the pushing force behind this global initiative? Quien es el cerebro detrás de esta organización?

Cynthia English is the founder and visionary for Global Scribes. Cynthia lived in South America, North America, Canada, the Middle East and Europe. She spent the first 22 years of her career travelling worldwide in the fashion industry, created her own interior design company, had articles and a thriller novel published, then launched Global Scribes on Thanksgiving Eve, 2014. She truly has dedicated her life to promote the acceptance of different and distinct lives, as well as the preservation of free spirit in all humanity, regardless of origin and culture.

Que puedes hacer? What can you do?

Create. Connect. Collaborate. Create your unique story. Connect via your unique video. Collaborate on GS Teams that speak to your heart and passion from Shakespeare and Theatre, to Bon Appetit, to Tech, to GS Scribes and others–you choose. Each story that is posted can be seen worldwide. Algunas historias se publican en Español!  If you know more than more language, post your story in both! It doesn’t have to be perfect. Just practice!

This interactive network that promotes youth to express their creativity, imagination, and virtually connecting youth to break down barriers and brings about global unity. Being able to relate to a student in South America about what makes them happy and being able to write about it lets you learn so much about a different culture. The beauty and the power of the written word should not be wasted! This NGO is revolutionizing global education.

Outstanding Latinas in Politics

As part of Women’s History Month, we are spotlighting influential Latinas who have made a difference in the community and/or their field.

Ambassador_Vilma_MartínezVilma Martínez
From 2009 – 2013, Vilma Martínez, a democrat, became the first woman to be the U.S. Ambassador to Argentina. Born October 1943, Martinez has an impressive history as a civil rights activist and lawyer with MALDEF (Mexican American Legal Defense and Educational Fund) and the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund. As the president of MALDEF (Mexican American Legal Defense and Educational Fund), she fought for the Voting Rights Act to include Mexican-Americans.

 

 

Cristinakirchnermensaje2010Cristina Fernández De Kirchner
Born on February 19, 1953 in La Plata,Buenos Aires Province, Cristina Fernández De Kirchner   is the first directly elected female president of Argentina, and is the first re-elected female president of the country. While she has made a strong impact with her policies, she is often critiqued for her bold moves and relationship with the media.

 

 

220px-Hilda_Solis_CropHilda Solis
From 2001- 2009, Hilda Solis served in the United States House of Representatives. In 2009, Hilda Solis, C became the first Latina serve in a State Senate. She is a highly accomplished politician and environmental activist. Shes was member of the Committee on Energy and Commerce, authored 17 bills against domestic violence, and is passionate about labor laws, immigration reform, and education. As the first person in her family to attend college, she is an incredible role model for Latinas wanting to make a difference in their community. Hilda Solis continues to have a long-lasting impact with her community in California.

Women’s History Month: Leading Latinas

As part of Women’s History Month, we are spotlighting influential Latinas whom have made a difference in the community and/or their field.

Alicia Alonso Alicia_Alonso_1955
Founder of what is now called the National Ballet of Cuba, this Cuban girl inspired many ballerinas to follow their dreams. She received the Bellas Artes Merit from Spain Monarchy, gold medal at Circulo de Bellas Artes in Spain, and the Cuban title of Heroina Nacional deal Trabajo. She has become one of the most outstanding athletes throughout Cuban history. Don’t be shy if you know how to dance or paint chica, Alicia Alonso wasn’t afraid to show the people who she was. Who knows, you might inspire your very own artistic movement.

Alicia Dickenson Montemayor
Working with men during  the 1930’s was very difficult for women, and even more difficult if you were a Latina. Well, this outstanding Latina paved the way in so many areas. She became the first woman associate editor of LULAC News, but also the first elected woman for national office and vice president of the League of United Latin American Citizens. She did a lot for middle class Latin American people and promoted civil rights for women and Latinas.

Claribel Alegria
Alegria moved to the United States in 1943; this Nicaraguan poet has won our hearts and minds with her poem I survived (Sobrevivo). The poem led her to win the Cuban-sponsored Casa de las Americas award in 1978. She has became one of the most influential political activists in Nicaragua. Her passion and political activism led to the creation of a social movement in Nicaragua called La Generacion Comprometida.

Stay tuned for future installments to be published throughout Women’s History Month! 

Big Sis Spotlight: Rachel Jackson


“We are not going to show up on the syllabus. We always have to interrupt and tell our stories.”

Rachel Jackson’s passionate voice could be heard over the Starbucks noise as she explains how modern political theory can intersect with her Latina identity. Having majored in Politics and minored in Spanish, the knowledge that she absorbed in those college classrooms has shaped who she is and how she perceives the world around her.

After Jackson graduated from her local high school with an International Baccalaureate diploma, she was encouraged by her older sister to attend Pomona College, a top liberal arts college in California. Initially unsure of how to navigate in her new environment, the El Paso native struggled in her first year of college.

“In my first year [of Pomona] I was not doing well, I didn’t know what I liked, I was in a bad relationship…I almost transferred,” Jackson recalls.

Jackson is not afraid to admit that she struggled in her freshmen year. With the pressure of trying to find peers to connect with and of adjusting to the college environment and her classes, she began to feel isolated. By talking to the college’s psychologist, Jackson began recuperating from the stress and troubles that affected her. But what really made a significant impact on her was one of her politics classes. She had just finished writing a paper over Calvinism when her professor came to her, impressed by Jackson’s writing skills. She received her first A of the year from that paper and was shocked by both the grade and her professor’s remarks. Telling Jackson that she has an ability to talk intelligently about social contract theory, Jackson realized that this was an avenue to pursue.

Over the course of her college years, Jackson became involved in a variety of different groups and organizations that helped develop her ideas as a student and individual.

Jackson joined the Latino student organizations very early on in her college career, but found that machismo was present in some of these groups. Instead of being discouraged, she ended up joining black student organizations that allowed her to find the discussions and peers that she sought. Through these organization and others, Jackson was able to develop as an intellectual and individual.

Displaying a strong sense of self-awareness and of the society around her, she realized how the El Paso environment was different from Claremont’s. Although Jackson knew that the predominantly Mexican population in El Paso were “similar, but not really” to her as a Columbian, it didn’t bother her. However, she underwent a culture shock in California since the environment was vastly different from her hometown.

She soon realized that for many people, Latinos, regardless of ethnicity, were viewed as solely blue-collared workers. The majority of Latinos in Pomona seemed to be custodian or dining hall workers and this was something that Jackson noted. Driven by what she saw around her, she became involved in projects for marginalized communities.

Under Pomona’s Draper Center for Community Partnership, she was the program coordinator where she was able to reach out to communities the way she wanted to. The first project she did was English as Second Language, a program that paired non-English speaking workers within the university to students that volunteered to help. Another task that Jackson undertook was LEGS (Leadership Engagement in Gender and Sexuality), a project that allowed Pomona’s Career Center to work with a local high school’s Gay and Straight Alliance Club. This project would provide support to those local high school students that wanted to explore any questions they had.

Jackson became involved in the Student Government her senior year where she was elected as president of Senate. The committee changed the conversation on campus by trying to have an ethnic studies class to be a requirement for all incoming Pomona students.  Exposing students to a different perspective about others was something that Jackson believes to be important.

With the realization of the world’s injustices in high school through literature and poems, and the example from her family of helping others, Jackson became driven to help those around her. Jackson states that coming from an immigrant family there is this sense that you have to go to college to achieve the American Dream, but Pomona made her “realize there are other options.” Driven to make a difference, she is now looking for a job that involves legal work to see if she would like law school.

Encouraging Girls in Computing

Daniela Miranda
Young Women in Computing Program Coordinator
Employer: New Mexico State University

Hometown: Chihuahua, Mexico

What are some of your job responsibilities?
I’m focused on outreach to increase the number of students in computer science. Help them find I run after-school programs and summer camps where girls learn about Snap, lego robotics, app inventor for middle school and introduction to Linux, Java Script and HTML. We attend conferences where such as the Grace Hopper conference where college students get good internships. I recruit and find opportunities. We are there for any girls who need us to present to help introduce girls we like to spread the word about computer science.

What is your educational background?
I have an accounting degree from Mexico. When I came from Mexico, I got a business degree. My family was here in Texas, so I came too. There are better opportunities here. My degree gave me all the tools to be able to succeed. I always had a part-time job so that helped me get a job.

What did you do to prepare for this career?
Never give up.

What is your favorite part of your job?
I like getting to know new people and meet young women and connect them with the opportunities that our program offers. We want to recruit more Hispanic young women, but most of the time the Hispanic population doesn’t know about opportunities in computer science. Because there are a lot of job openings. By 2020 there will be a lot of opportunities in computer science.

Career Spotlight: Engineer Libby Howell

Position & Title: Electrical Engineer/ Computer Network Assessor Auditor
Employer: US Army Research Laboratory
City & State: El Paso, Texas

What are some of your job responsibilities?
“We do certifications and accreditation of army systems for the risk management framework. Normally, I am a team lead so we go and access the army systems to make sure that they meet the minimum requirements as far as security poster […] so they don’t get hacked into. The requirements are part of the NISTA: National Institute of Standards of Technology. That’s one area, the other area is that I work for a directorate under the Army Research Laboratory that’s called Survivability Lethality Analysis. So we perform all types of survivability analysis and again, in support of the Army to make sure that they are survivable when they are being built. My area has to do more with information assurance. We test army systems as they are going through a developmental cycle to make sure that they could survive a cyber attack. So we run tests, we do penetration tests, and also […] evaluate the soldiers on how well they can detect, react, and restore their systems if there is a cyber attack.”

What is your educational background?
“I have a Bachelor’s of Science in Electrical Engineering. When I first started working for the Department of Defense, I used to work the modernizing the radars that were used as instruments for testing out in White Sands Missile Range. That was my first job so […] I couldn’t have done that if I didn’t have an engineering degree.”

How did you find your current job?
“I was looking for a job locally […] and really there weren’t a lot of technical jobs. Most people either went to work for Fort Bliss or White Sands [for those who were engineers.] So I applied to White Sands and I got the job. Another interesting thing though, is that back then, I was the first female engineer they ever had. A year later another [woman] got hired. I mean they had females, but as secretaries and they had two female technicians, but was the first female engineer [at that one organization]….It was an organization that was called the Instrumentation Directorate. We basically were involved in modernizing or providing new instruments that were used to collect data.”

What did you do to prepare for this career?
“I studied hard. You know the reason I got into engineer is kind of weird. Math came easy to me and I liked it, but I didn’t know what to do with math [in the beginning]. I didn’t want to be a teacher, that didn’t interest me so I figured that engineering is the application of math. So that’s why I picked it. I didn’t know anything about EE (Electrical Engineering) when I was in high school. When I was in high school, it was very different from your guys went. There wasn’t any AP classes and all these special programs, you just did the basics. I was never really exposed to it.”

What is your favorite part of your job?
“It’s really the people, my coworkers. Nothing that we do is ever one person. We do a lot of test events so we do things as a group.”

What is the most challenging part of your job?
“What’s challenging is keeping up with the changes, especially for computers. Things are changing so rapidly, it’s a lot of stuff you have to know. You need to know the ins and outs because you need to know that in order to try to exploit the weaknesses.

What advice would you give to help a girl prepare for a job like yours?
“It’s a great career…and there are so many applications in the engineering field. You can apply it to so many different things. As a EE you can work with car manufactures, aero-space industry, electronics, there are so many different applications that I think is a very good field.”

What do you do for fun when you aren’t working?
“I take art classes, I’ve always liked art. I read a lot. I like doing things with my hands so I take a lot, what they call continued education classes at the community college, that have to with crafts. I love crafts so I’ve taken mosaic, stained glass, metal embossing…I used to love art in high school. I at one point considered, doing something in that field. At the end of the year [next year], I would’ve retired. I would have had 32 years. I want to take a lot more classes, I want to do faces and people, but that’s a lot harder. I want to do wood working and learn to play the piano again. I also want to volunteer. I haven’t decided if I want to do a nursing home or a shelter for battered women.”

Latina Actresses Making a Difference

Whether they’re famous or not, these women are rising up the Latina pride. These women have achieved incredible things and they should be recognized for everything they’ve done, not just for being a pretty face or for being famous.

Rosario Dawson
Born in the US, Rosario Dawson has Puerto Rican and Afro-Cuban roots; she’s a singer, actress and writer. Rosario started her career at a very young age and has appeared in movies such as Sin City, Men in Black II, Cesar Chavez and many more.

Dawson is the co-founder of Voto Latino, she’s really passionate about promoting Latinos, raising awareness about Latinos; they are a big part of the US population, to promote Latino talent and to make people involved in political issues.

Besides her work with Voto Latino and according to Looktothestars.org, Dawson has worked with different organizations such as, Artists for Peace and Justice, DoSomething.org, Global Cool, Make-A-Wish Foundation and ONE Campaign.

 

Zoe Saldana
She has Dominican and Puerto Rican roots and lived in Dominican Republic for 7 years, then moved back to the States to pursue her dancing dream and her love for theater.

Saldana has worked in movies such as Avatar, Guardians of the Galaxy, Start Trek and many more. In several occasions she has proven to be proud of her Latina roots, and after being on the cover of Glamour magazine she did an interview with Glam Belleza Latina where Saldana stated, “I am proud to be Latina. I will not accept [anyone] telling me that I’m less or whatever, because to me, that is just hysterical. But I don’t like to break and divide myself into all these small little categories like, ‘I’m an American, a woman, a Latina, a black Latina.’’ No. I am Zoe.”

 

Gina Rodriguez
Gina has been recognized majorly for her role on Filly Brown, and now following her big role as the star of the TV show Jane the Virgin. Rodriguez’s success has been thanks to the fact that she’s been working hard at a young age: performing, dancing, acting and studying in different art schools, always trying to improve. In her busy schedule Rodriguez also has managed her time and made space to work with different organizations. Rodriguez is supporter of Inspira, an organization dedicated to give attention to Latino leaders who help in their communities, Rodriguez has worked with the National Hispanic Foundation for the Arts.

 

Michelle Rodriguez

Known for always being the tough chick in many roles; the most significant one so far has been being part of the Fast & Furious saga. However, not only that, but Rodriguez has also made a name of herself by being different. Rodriguez has a personal mark and that has made a difference around the Hollywood actresses, she has proven that girls can be strong and still be intelligent and attractive.

Rodriguez has helped Sea Shepherd, an organization dedicated to stop the whale killing, and has also hosted different fundraisers for different organizations.

Karla Souza

Born in Mexico City, Souza has taken many risks to succeed in her acting career. She started with small roles on TV then began participating on big Mexican productions such as “We Are the Nobles” and “Instructions not Included”, which were a big hit in Mexico and got the attention from several other countries. Another of Souza’s dreams was to be a Hollywood actress; her family trusted her but they weren’t sure if she was going to make it, but Souza proved them wrong and made it. Souza is part of the TV show “How to Get Away with Murder” and has worked on many other movies who will be released later.

All of these women have different traits that have made them stand out from the rest, but there’s one thing they share: being Latinas. They have proven that dreams do come true, as long as you work hard and take risks. If one of your goals in life is to become an actress, it’s possible. The road is not easy, but just as these women, you can achieve it too!

Running with Ambition

Behrend-Track-main-resizedA successful athlete and student, Ayla Lopez has worked hard to be where she is today. Entering her senior year of high school this year, she looks forward to another running season and beyond that: college. This is her story.

Often training in the scorching heat of Texas, Alya Lopez has been working hard to reach a new PR (Personal Record, reference to your best time in an event). Determined to break physical and mental barriers, she trains year round to compete in the 800m and 1500m with the hopes of being better than the race before. Training since she was eight years old, Lopez will soon reach the tenth year mark as a runner and athlete.

Lopez wasn’t always a runner; she started off as a cheerleader. Eight-year old Ayla would be practicing her twirls and cheers, but would sometimes watch her older brother train under the guidance of Sam Walker, a legendary track coach of El Paso. Wanting to try it out, Lopez went to a few practices and thought it was “fun.” From there her running career began.

Lopez continued on running even when she was discouraged by others or faced defeat. She was told that running wasn’t “girly enough” and that she should stick with cheerleading. Ignoring these comments  she continued training and in her first race as an eight year old, she got dead last in the 800m race and was told that maybe running wasn’t for her. It was only a year later where she qualified for the opportunity to run at Nationals where she won her first All-American title. Since then Lopez has been going to Nationals across the nation almost every year, visiting Nebraska, Virginia, South Carolina, Texas, Alabama, and most recently Chicago, Illinois where she has earned All-American titles in the 800m and 1500m and PRed almost every year.

When Walker decided to retire from coaching mid-way through Lopez’s running athletic career, her father stepped in and created the running club TexaStrong. Under her father’s guidance, Lopez has able to overcome obstacles as an athlete and achieve the PRs she wanted. Training simultaneously with her high school team and with TexaStrong during the school year, she trains up to 17.5 hours a week with one day off. During the summer, Lopez trains twice a day to become a stronger athlete. However, this can sometimes strain her body, her will, and her spirit.

“Before Nationals [last year], I had bad shin splints and road runs hurt, I was burnt out. But I looked at old pictures and videos of me training [when I was younger] and remembered that [running] is something I love,” says Lopez.

While Lopez is a remarkable runner, she is just as impressive academically and as a community member. She was invited to be a part of the National Hispanic Institute (NHI), an organization geared towards recognizing academically successful Latinos, as a sophomore. Lopez was nominated as All District Academic in Track her sophomore year as well, an award given to a male and female athlete (for every sport) that has the highest GPA within the district.

Lopez volunteers at the local public library, Dorris Van Doren, where she reads to children every Wednesday in the summertime. She has also helped coach the younger kids in father’s running club when she is taking time off or in her off season. Other times she is acts as a volunteer and counselor at Rescue Mission in El Paso or the Yellow Mustard Café (a shelter for the homeless). Lopez has also been involved in the fundraising for donation to a local women’s shelter.

“Don’t compare yourself to others, you know what you can do,” Lopez advices. “Don’t give up, take a moment to look back and ask yourself why it was your passion. You can do so much more. It’s not easy, but doable.”

As Lopez continues her goals as an athlete and student, she hopes to go to a Texas college that will give her an opportunity to run for them. With hard work and dedication, Lopez is a prime example of how it pays off in the end.

Michelle Phan: Remaining True to Your Goals

maxresdefaultThis March during Spring Break I had the opportunity, thanks to Latinitas, to attend SXSW. SXSW is a set of film, interactive and music festivals and conferences that occur annually in Austin, Texas. This year both Latinos and women were prominently featured, and I attended with the goal of learning as much as I could from figures that are inspiring to Latinitas. One figure in particular caught my attention as I know that she is especially popular among preteen and teenage girls. That person is Michelle Phan, the explosively famous YouTuber who performs makeup tutorials on camera, and also runs her own makeup line called Em.

Michelle, along with Lucky Magazine editor-in-chief Eva Chen, headed a panel about how to remain true to ourselves and to our goals. Michelle started out the panel by noting that “right now is such a hard time to be a female because we are judged on so many different platforms.” She’s right: real life, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat…There are dozens of different ways in which who we are and what we say and how we look are analyzed and judged. So what’s a girl to do?

Michelle said that first off it is important to decide who you are. You must ask yourself: “What do you represent? What story do you want to tell?” It is important to ask yourself these questions because without a sense of what you believe and who you want to be you may fall prey to the lies others tell you about yourself.

Speaking of those with unkind things to say, Michelle says to “ignore the bullies and give platform to those speaking and doing good.” Once you have a vision for yourself and have learned to combat negativity you are ready to begin actively achieving your goals. Surround yourself with those who believe in and support those goals.

Michelle knows what she’s taking about. Behind her glamorous image and creative talent is a woman who endured much hardship to get to where she is today. Born to Vietnamese immigrants, her father left the family when she was very young. Her mother, living in poverty, struggled to provide for Michelle and her brother. She dreamed of Michelle becoming a doctor. Michelle, as much as she loved her mother and wanted to make her happy, knew instinctively that medicine was not her calling. So at the last minute she enrolled in art classes instead and paid her way working as a waitress.

She did not begin filming her YouTube videos until she was turned down for a job selling makeup at the Lancôme counter. She knew that, despite what others believed, she had a talent for makeup and could use it to help others. She began discussing and applying makeup herself on camera, and quickly gained followers. Her “Barbie Makeup” tutorial has 6 million views and counting! Major beauty lines soon noticed her success and talent. Lancôme, who had once turned her down for a job, returned to offer Michelle her very own makeup line with them! A while later, she received an offer for a book deal.

Today, Michelle has over 7 million subscribers to her YouTube channel, a makeup line called ‘Em’ and a published book. But even as she works hard to remain successful she remembers the importance of giving back to those most in need. At the SXSW panel she told the audience that she was headed to China the next day to promote a non-profit that foments education on a global scale. Her dedication to both achieving her own dreams and helping others to achieve theirs is an inspiring reminder that when we discover our life purpose we positively affect the lives of others.

Journalist Zita Arocha

Zita Arocha

Zita Arocha

 Zita Arocha is a Cuban-American bilingual journalist and senior lecturer in the University of Texas At El Paso. She is director of Borderzine.com, a multimedia web magazine that prepares Hispanic college journalists for jobs in 21st century newsrooms. For over 20 years, she worked as a reporter for The Washington PostThe Miami Herald, The Miami News and The Tampa Times. She was executive director of the National Association of Hispanic Journalists from 1993-1997, and was training coordinator for the Freedom Forum’s Chips Quinn Scholars Program from 2000-2002. She has also been a freelance contributor to various national publications.

What are your job responsibilities?
Right now, I am the director of an online magazine called Borderzine.com and also, I teach some of the Journalism courses.

What is your educational training?
I always wanted to be a teacher, but life had other things prepared.  My first job was at the Tampa Time and later I went to work at El Nuevo Harold in Miami. In the first newspaper I applied as a secretary, because there weren’t any current positions open. I waited a season. Finally one reporter quit his job, and I applied for it. My boss at that time taught me what I know now. He was my mentor and a big support of my career. I have also worked at the Washington Post and The Miami News.

How did you find your current job?
I was invited to teach at UTEP in 2002. I had come to El Paso years before and I thought that it was a nice place to live. Dr. Weatherspoon had made me the invitation to come to the university and teach communication. I felt so glad, because I studied to be a teacher and that opportunity came to me at the right moment. Also, I am the current director of Borderzine Magazine at UTEP and is for Hispanic journalist pursuing an opportunity in the journalism.

How did you prepare for this career?
Honestly, your daily work prepares you for your career. I earned a master’s degree in English and comparative literature from the University of South Florida, and recently I earned a MFA in bilingual creative writing at UTEP. My most recent job has been a memoir, Leaving Cuba.

What is your favorite part of the job?
My favorite part is seeing bright new students each semester. Also, there is always something new to do, to learn and even to write. I like that my students get engaged in communications. We see them now everywhere and I believe that in the communication area you never will get bored.

What is the most challenging part of the job?
I remember when I used to write stories from the court rooms, I would get chills of the cases I used to hear. It is one of the parts about my job, which I most enjoyed. Being there, in the middle of all those sometime terrible, great and inspiring jury verdicts. Reporting those cases was something that I will always remember. I even enjoy telling them to my students or even to someone that is interviewing me, like you.

What do you do for fun when you aren’t working?
Most of my time I spend it at school. But, like on the weekend I spend the time with my husband at our house. We are common people that do common things.