A guy talk Q&A session from a teen to teens.
Why do guys have the mentality of a little boy?
Most girls complain that guys cannot be mature about certain things, and in some cases guys begin to physically mature at an older age. According to Education.com, “… a young woman reaches full maturity, in terms of brain development between 21 and 22 years of age. A young man does not reach full maturity, in terms of brain development, until nearly 30 years of age.” But, it also depends on the guy, because it is a false statement when girls and women say, “ Men are all the same.” The truth is, guys need us to communicate with them, they want girls to tell them what they want and what they need. Relationships will not always be pink hearts and roses meaning there will be fights, but the whole point of a fight is to talk it over and move on.
What type of gifts you can give a guy?
When giving a gift to your boyfriend you can start with investigating the types of things he likes or his favorite store. Then you can give him simply articles like sweaters, shirts, belts, cologne, a watch, etc. It is pretty simple and you might have the chance to change your boyfriend’s style. Investigate the types of things he is into. For example, if you boyfriend is into a particular sport and you know his favorite team, buy him that team’s key chain, a beanie, shirts, or pants, etc. If your boyfriend is into art you can get him a set of brushes with some drawing books. If he is the type of guy that is into music, maybe make a playlist of his favorite songs, or give him a gift card to download music, or something from his favorite band. If he is into cars try to give him a model car and make him build it. Be creative, and if you have any trouble just ask a friend for help while shopping for you boyfriend’s gift.
Where can I go for my first date, or any other date?
The most common place to go on a date is to the movies. The best date movies are romantic comedies, horror movies, regular comedies, or maybe action movies. If you think that might be boring, you can go bowling or play pool, it is fun, and you can talk about yourself at the same time. If you want to get to know him better go somewhere quiet, go for a bite to eat, and later a walk around the park. A picnic in the park is also quiet, and something romantic and different. Also you might want to take the opportunity to play different sports. If you are daring and spontaneous, you can try paintball, or maybe go ice skating. Also, try going to a concert or a museum. When dating, be creative, and have fun at the same time!
How do I break up with someone?
Breaking up with someone is also one of hardest and most uncomfortable things to do, especially if you are in love with that person. But once you decide to break up with a guy, there is no turning back. You are breaking up with him for a reason, and for me, there is no point of getting back together when you decided to leave him for good. To break up with a guy you must remember to tell him in person, it is cruel to do it by phone or text. Then just tell him how you feel, the reasons why you think it’s not working anymore, and you also have the choice of asking him to stay friends. Sometimes though, the break up might get ugly, and if it does just leave. You already said what you needed to say so there is not point to fight it over with him.